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What's going on with this? My penis wouldn't stay hard..

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Question - (28 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My wife and I had about 3 years married and today day when I'm about to enter on her my penis star comming down, whats going on with that?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (28 July 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntTotally normal. Unless this happens to you consistently, you have just been introduced to something that happens to all guys once in awhile. You still feeling frisky? You still are attracted to your wife? Let your "little buddy" warm up again and give it another try. If you're worried about leaving your wife unsatisfied - I'm sure she'll be perfectly happy to receive some manual/oral attention from you!

If this becomes a steady issue for you, go to your doctor and they'll be able to help you out. Until then, try the ol' natural cure - try, try again!

Enjoy and goodluck!

xx India

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A male reader, Arthur Fonzerilli  United States +, writes (28 July 2008):

Is she wet inside yet? It helps. Why do you have sex because you have to or want to? If it is because you have to that will happen to you. Just forget about it. Look at her beautifull shaply body. And don't think about it and then it will come naturally and stay. Maybe even go without it sometimes and just cuddle her and look at her. Think it doesn't matter that much and then it will be better. Also try doing doggy style that is one way to stay aroused. But if you do without sex for a while it may help too. And don't take virgra yet because they just want your money when you don't really need it because it has side effects.

Have foreplay alot the foreplay is really what will make you stay in my oppion, try dry humping or petting. Pretend that you re both teenagers making out and this is both of your first times and it is forbidden.

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A male reader, ChiRaven United States +, writes (28 July 2008):

ChiRaven agony auntTrite but true ... it happens to all guys sooner or later. The inability to maintain an erection is something that at some time we pretty much all have to deal with.

In most cases it's just an occasional thing, and doesn't mean anything. Just carry on, enjoy being with your mate, and find other ways to satisfy her. Chances are you'll get over it quickly, perhaps even before you're done for the day. If the problem does persist and becomes more frequent, you may want to talk to your doctor about it. Sometimes such things have a physical cause that needs to be treated ... things like blood pressure problems, diet or other lifestyle issues, or even more serious illnesses can account for these problems on rare occasions. But in the vast majority of cases it's "just one of those things" that you have to take in stride.

And don't worry. For those who almost ALWAYS have those problems, Viagra, Levitra, et.al. work absolute WONDERS. A comforting thing for those of us reaching retirement age who have no intention of retiring from THAT aspect of our lives!

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