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What's going on with my FWB?

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Question - (7 September 2012) 9 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone I am in a really confusing situation at the moment I have been fwb with a man for over 2 year now I liked him in the beginning but the way he treated me my feelings for him went now I have been away abroad for two weeks and I came back he also went away last year without telling me I recently got back and checked my phone and I had 5 msgs off him one saying my name and another asking how I was we haven't spoken for over 6 weeks now I texct him back and he text me having a go at me what do you think he is playing at any suggestions greatly appreciated thank you x

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (8 September 2012):

FWB relationships are meant for avoiding all the complicated stuff of human relationship. It's ridiculous having a FWB and then being worried about what could he mean? It doesn't matter at all, you only have sex with him. Not feelings at all.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012):

I agree with Denise32, he's p*ssed off because you went away without (I assume) telling him, and when he came for his pleasure you wasn't there.

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (8 September 2012):

Denise32 agony auntBondGirl72: The OP said this man sent her a text "having a go at me". That sounds as if he was wanting to tell her off for not being at his beck and call - in other words, he was trying to start an argument is the impression I get.

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (8 September 2012):

Denise32 agony auntBondGirl72: The OP said this man sent her a text "having a go at me". That sounds as if he was wanting to tell her off for not being at his beck and call - in other words, he was trying to start an argument is the impression I get.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (8 September 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntmaybe it's just the way I think but to me he just wants to have an evening... i.e. sex.

the only way to know what he means is to ASK HIM

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A female reader, BondGirl72 United States +, writes (8 September 2012):

BondGirl72 agony auntI agree with the others. Did he say he wants to have a go with you? Possibly referring to trying to have a real relationship instead of just a FWB relationship?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012):

Sorry he asked me how I was and why I was ignoring him which I wasn't as I was abroad then I got one off him with just my name so I text him back and asked him how he was he replied with why have you been ignoring me and said he had been to mine but wouldn't say when now he is not speaking to me as he sent me a explicit picture of himself and I just replied thanks as I don't wanna be used like this he treats me awful thank you

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (7 September 2012):

AuntyEm agony auntYes I agree...need more info x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2012):

Its hard to say without knowing what exactly he said in his text, and perhaps what the other texts said...

A bit more info would help.

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