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writes:Three months ago I moved away from my home town and away from a guy I liked there. We went out before I left but I couldn't find the courage to tell him how I felt only to then walk away, knowing I would be away for such a long time. Over the past few months we've exchanged emails but they've been nothing major. When I first left, he told me he missed me each time he emailed me but then he stopped, so I didn't say it back to him, not wanting to put pressure on him, but then at the start of January I emailed him and in amongst it all, I told him that I missed him and wished he could be here with me.The thing is, that he didn't reply to me for a month, and when he did, he was all like, 'what are you up to?' and 'hope you're having fun'I just don't get it. If he wasn't interested at all, why bother to reply at all, and if he was/is interested, why take so long to reply and why not then mention the previous mail??What's going on in this guy's head??? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 The fact of the matter is he HAS gotten over you love. He missed you at the time but he's getting on with his life now. When you said you missed him in your email and he took a month to reply it shows he has other, more important things going on in his life now. He replied out of pure courtesy, nothing more.
Now YOU can move on too. Find someone closer to where you live and just be happy!
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reader, xkimx +, writes (30 January 2007):
 id probably think the same uno what you've got a crush but does he feel the same about you try talking to him dont be scared you'll never no find out whats hes been up to and if he carrys on being ignorant you should take a month to reply to his emails
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): Basiacally you have moved away, and he isn't interested in you because of this. He sounds like a nice guy though, but its pretty obvious that he doesn't want too contact you and he is out doing other things with people closer. How can you maintain a friendship a long distance away or even a relationship? Speaking too each other once or twice a month is enough which is what he is doing.I would forget him and find someone closer too you, its not going too work. Thats life!
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