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anonymous
writes: i recently met a man i have started to like . we have now been dating a few months and he then found out from a close mate of his that he dated me a year ago. now my man may leave me, he is not sure . what would you do in this situation Reply to this Question |
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (8 March 2008):
 That's very odd, you didn't even know him at the time. It may be a little awkward for him but to be "unsure"? I can't believe you don't have a crystal ball, I mean, you should have known! What a wierdo. I would blow it off and if he keeps bringing up, blow him off!
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reader, dearkelja + ♥, writes (8 March 2008):
 Anyone who would tell me "I may leave you but I am not sure" I would say to them, "well I am sure I am going to leave you." That is a very cruel thing to do. You did nothing intentionally to this man to cause him to treat you like that. If he can't tolerate your past then you have no future and without a future what value is the present?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): are you not entitled to see anyone else?
pfft of course you are!
if he would leave you because of this then id save his time and kick his arse out the door!
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reader, baby duck +, writes (8 March 2008):
 If a man I was dating would judge me poorly because I dated his friend a year before, and I had not hidden it from him, than I would hold the door for him as he left.
I don't need anyone like that in my life.
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