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writes:What do say to a friend that doesn't believe me?Hello, and thanx for the help. Okay so i have these two friends one of them has been my friend for almost 2 years and the other for barley a year. So the problem is that my friend that i know for less time got mad at me for something stupid. And the next day i didnt go to school and i found out that she told my other friend the one that i know for the almost 2 years.. a whole bunch of lies that i said about that person.. and that i lied to him and stuff. i don't know what to say to him because im really upset that he believed her when she said all those lies, hes posting things on myspace and msn about people that lie and stuff and i wish someone could give me some advice about what i should do should i forgive him for believing her and her lies and saying things about me, or should i lose my friendship?please help.. and i know is a whole book of a story but um really upset because they were my "best friends"
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 I know this is going to sound harsh but to be very frank with you here, if you have friends who are willing to tell lies about you and friends who are willing to believe those lies without confronting you or the source of those lies, then perhaps they aren't good enough people to have as friends in the first instance.
Friendship is built on trust. It is very difficult to rebuilt it once it is gone, but especially so if you have done nothing to cause this lack of it.
They really do not deserve to be friends with you and I know it wouldn't be easy distancing yourself from them, but with friends like that, you don't need enemies, you know?
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