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26-29,
anonymous
writes:recently I've started talking to a guy who I have a bit of history with - we've both admitted that we still have feelings for eachother but I've just moved to uni and he's about 4 hours away from me.. we've been trying to discuss what we're gonna do but the distance, history etc is making things complicated. what can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2013): These days it is easy and pretty inexpensive to keep in contact with skype, facebook, texting, phone calls etc, and if you are only four hours away, I'm sure you could both see each other at least a few times a year. But it wouldn't be easy, especially not in the very early stages of a relationship, and especially not when the distance between you is not temporary (For example, if you were just going to be apart for one year, and he was going to move to your town, then it might be easier because the long distance is not permanent/long term)If you and this guy really feel like you have a strong connection, it might be worth trying, you could both agree to a trial period of 2-3 months to see if you can do the long distance thing, or if you don't see that working, you might have to agree that it is not going to be possible to have a relationship and go your separate ways or simply remain friends
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reader, Denizen +, writes (23 September 2013):
 I think you are going to meet lots of interesting people at UNI. I would let your old relationship cool.
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