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writes:I met this guy and we dated for 2 months. It was going great. He introduce me to his friends and family whihc he has not done with a girl for 4 years. we got along very well and he was really good with my son. We ended up having a lil spat which put us on a break for 3 weeks. I ended up texting and calling him a lot within a short time frame and scared him and his friends. I decided to really not text him for 4 days. he then text me to see if i wanted to hang. we hung out for 4 hours, went for a long walk, booster juice and visit some stores. It went very well. The next night he texted me and told me he wasnt sure if he wanted a relationship and perhaps start off as friends again and start over. Then almost a week later we chats on the phone and he told me how much he really likes me and how much he realize he miss spending time wtih me but he dont want to get involved cause i freaked him out. he said if there was any girl he be with right now it be with me but he really cant see us working this out. is there anyway i can change his mine or fix this? he told me " you have no idea how much i miss cuddling you and everything and its very hard and he really means it. someone please help me. i really want this to work
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (28 September 2011):
 What was the 'lil' spat that put you on break? You were only together 2 months, so it much have been bigger than a 'lil' spat?
And when he said you 'freaked him out,' what did he mean by that?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (28 September 2011):
 Darling, you two were together a whopping 2 months and he called time out for a break!!! What was this little spat over?
It sounds as if you scared him off being a bit too clingy. Or he got scared you two were moving a bit too fast.
I don't understand why he says it can't work when he didn't even give you two really a chance. Unless you were REALLY that clingy, which will make a guy run for the hills.
Give him a couple with weeks with NO CONTACT at all. See if he contacts you expressing how much he misses you. If not, contact him and see if he wants to meet up just for a friendly lunch. Then during lunch, admit that you miss him and would like to work things out, seeing as he really didn't give you a chance (2 months is nothing). See what he says.
Now if he says "No", then it's truly over and you need to move on.
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