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What is to sense massive pressure until it gets really uncomfortable? Was it an orgasm?

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Question - (25 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, *majayne writes:

I have a bit of an embarasing question. I don't know if i've ever had an orgasm. My ex would always say "i think you just had an orgasm" but the truth is i don't even know what one is supposed to feel like. Am i supposed to feel something really huge? cause i never have. It felt like it was building up like some massive pressure and it got really uncomfortable so i said to stop. Please help me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007):

Everyone is different and many women go through many sexual partners and experiences before they have a real orgasm. It sounds to me like you were building up to one. At the point where it gets uncomfortable you should relax and let the feeling ride over you.

I doubt that your ex would have known that he had made you orgasm, he probably just liked to think he did.

Don't worry yourself about it, I thought that id had orgasms with my previous boyfriends but when I had a real orgasm with my current partner, I knew that what Id felt before was probably just been horny, ha! when you do have an orgasm you will know.

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A female reader, suchislife32 United States +, writes (26 September 2007):

Trust me unfortunatly you have not had an orgasm. You will know for certain when you do. Having an orgasm is unmistakeble.

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