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writes:I've got a question that's been bugging me for a while and wondering if any of you have had the same thoughts or experience or on the same wavelength.I have fancied this guy ever since I 1st saw him one year ago. But I say 'fancy him' I feel so drawn to him and his sexy ways. We are friends and have been on and off FWB and I'm not saying its anything like love at all. It's an immense attraction like I've never felt before in my entire life - I'm in my early 30s and hes 10 years older.I've fancied guys in the past but this is insane. He is so the opposite what I would normally go for - he looks sort of rough like a bad boy - really masculine and he is just so confident and sure of himself - and funny. But his looks - or something- there is something about him I can't get enough of. This might sound strange to some - you'll probably think its just an infatuation, which it could well be, but this is what I've been doing... I think to myself 'just what is it about this guy that is so sexy?' So I think of him and his body working from the top from his head, all his features - his eyes - wow! , his mouth and his expressions and workin down his whole body in detail I fancy every single inch of him but then I'm thinking this is not normally the type of guy that does anything for me - in the way how I perceive him to be a bit of a bad boy. So it gets me wondering is there something more to it as in not just physical - his looks - but maybe some kind of chemistry or pheromones or something I can't put my finger on - literally! But something more.Has anyone else ever experienced anything like this? Or heard of? I can't work it out but feel there's a bit more to it than just his actual physical being - but it is just sexual in the way I feel about him - what do you all think? That's if you understand what I'm talking about lol!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2013): I'm the OP here.
Thanks for your answers but I need to add something: I don't think he has any, or many, admirers in that way!
I see an hear of him chatting to girls but getting nowhere with them so it must just be me that fancies him like crazy. He knows it too but I don't mind!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2013): I can fully relate to where you are coming from. There is something very very sexy about bad boys. I was about your age when I fell in love with one at work. He was uber sexy. confident and always up to no good. Just being near him aroused me and I couldn't put my finger on it. All the girls felt the same. We discussed his attraction in great depth and put it down to not being able to control him, never really knowing what he was up to or much about his outside life, the roughness which turned us all on, the sharpness of his suits, his estuarine voice and the confidence and way he carried himself - all ultra addictive. We all felt the same about him. It's a sexual infatuation and very powerful and addictive. Enjoy it - I know I did!!
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (25 August 2013):
 I know I like a person too and I find myself wanting tp call and text them. Which I cant I see them and I get very aroused instantly I smell them when Im close. I on purpose touch them in interacting. And I fantasize about them if we went on dates and more. Its odd I guess its cause they are kind of off limits too. Its that desire to have someone unattainable. I told them once early in our first meeting to tell there significant other there a very lucky person. I really like this person not to just hit and let it Go so to speak. Im pretty sure they think Im a dog or playa so to speak. Not really the case. My outside is very hard inside is soft Im a cancer for sure. We the best. I can relate fully to this post.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 August 2013):
 I thought it was pheromones before you mentioned it. It's very good that you can differentiate between sex and love. He is the kind of man that makes all the married nice guys jealous! I had this experience before. Once you cross the line and know those men in a more personal level you understand that it's purely physical. Nothing too scientific or esoteric here, he is just a masculine man.
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