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writes:Hi uncles and aunts. Lets cut to the chase... I wanna know what is so sexy or unique about anal sex! More than just once, my bf has been moving to my back site before i could lead him to the correct one. Lol! Sometimes i think he'd be doing that deliberately, maybe because he wanted to have a taste of it there but i'm just not sure. Should i try it? The thought of it is disgusting to me!! Just wanna know if does it taste much better from the back for guys or is it just the same?
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (12 September 2008):
 From male sources I gather that men are just curious about the feeling and expect it to be great because your anus is a lot tighter than your vagina.
I suggest you set your man straight on the fact that you have better equipment than that, it would hurt you to have anal sex (not to mention the possible side effects) and finally encourage him to penetrate you properly.
You can tighten your vagina by sqeezing your muscles as if you were trying not to pee. Doing this as he penetrates you will help him feel the desired sensation. You could get on all fours and do it doggy style, if he wants to look at your bum!
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (11 September 2008):
My guy says that it feels different which he like. Personally anal sex isn't that great it has its brief moments but I mostly just do it for my guy not for myself. If you really cant stand the idea then dont do it. If you are up tight and not sure then you are a lot more likely to get hurt during anal sex. It will cause you to be really tight and uncomfortable.
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reader, Lance Merryweather +, writes (11 September 2008):
 I can only speak personally and would just say, anal sex is a thing I would contemplate with a partner when it's a case of 'what shall we try next?' By that, I mean we have been together a long time sex-wise and may seek something different for the hell of it. I would have to really love the woman though. Certainly, for me, not the sort of thing I would want to do more than once in a blue moon. A warm, moist, inviting, pouting pussy just can't be beat!
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reader, femalespicolli +, writes (11 September 2008):
 My boyfriend wants me to try it also. I'm not comfortable with doing it, so I offered to try other new things as a compromise. Don't do something you don't want to. If he loves you, he'll understand even if he continues to ask. just say no man it's not gonna happen!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): Some people (of both genders) seem to really like it but I don't.
I think maybe the naughtiness of the whole thing plays a role for some people.
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female
reader, HonningKanin +, writes (11 September 2008):
 If you are ot comfortable with it you do not have to do it. It can be very pleasurable for a woman, contrast to what eyeswideopen has said, I also speak for myself. There are more nerve endings in the anus and if I am realxed enough it feels very good for me.
But in saying that you have to be relaxed or it will hurt, badly and if your partner is too forcefull before you are ready you can tear. You also need to know your size. Not everyone can take pornstar sized penises straight away or even at all. You actualy have to practice to get the anus to stretch for a parter who is maybe well endowed.
If you are going to try it, be sure to be very very well washed back there, use lube or a condom that is lubricated and never go anus to vagina. That is asking for trouble.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 September 2008):
 If you think it's disgusting, don't try it. Personally I think it's stupid for women to have anal sex when they have perfectly lovely equipment upfront.
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