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writes:Ok so I am new to this site but I love the idea of it, I would love to do something like this for people my own age but professionally. Anyway I have a pretty confusing question... I am a woman who tends to cling to men and love too easily, due to the fact that I have a big thing for a guy who would say 'we're not even that close'.So I have known the guy since early sept last year and he has been sending me messages ever since. On boxing day 08 he said that he liked my smile and we just hit it off from there. We had been working on college productions together every now and then before that message. We have seen each other about 10 times since christmas and for about 1 hour (min) 2 hour (max) each time. All this time I really feel as though I want it to go further than just talking every day and seeing each other every now and then. I really don't know if he's interested or just using me for some company he seems to come across as a nervous genuine guy but with all due respect how many men are like that really? I have been hurt before so really appreciate how he is getting to know me but I would hate to find out that I am wasting my time when it's too late.I would really like some opinions/advice on this please... Also please do ask for more info and talk to me about this problem as I always have a lot to say.On that note do you think I could read into things too much?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): There really are guys who are genuinely shy and nice! Lots of them! If you like this guy tell him you would like to get to know him better. But take it slow. You have all the time in the world at your age. Don't rush the years, they go by quick enough!
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reader, Johnnyboy03  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 I think, if nothing else, he is interested in your friendship. Using you for company is kind of a strong word, since, in a way, we could all say we use each other for company.
You really haven't given much to go on. I'm sure he has given some hints as to his feelings on the matter. If you talk everyday, it shouldn't be that big of a stretch to ask him to go out to lunch or something.
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