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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:this guy works at a store near my home everytime i go in there he starts making conversation.and come to find out my co workers boyfriend and him are best friends.well he always starts the converstion when i see him and when im in the check out line comes anf talks to me saying.oh your just buying a little grocerys today and as im leaving he asks me how my day was at work and then my co worker told him i liked him and now hes been talking to me even more and i went in there a fre wks ago and he was arguing with some guy all mad and he seen me and got a big smile and said oh hi how are u..then i went and as im walking out he introduces hiself to my daughter and shakes her hand then i went in there this last time and he was asking me oh which place did u work at tonight and he named the citys i work in.which i didnt know he even knew i worked at 2 places then he said oh and which one are u working at tomorrow? so i asked him for his number and he says oh i kind of have something going on right now but thanks for letting me know your intetested ill keep that in mind?? from what i hear is he is single so what is that suppost to mean i thought by the way he would look at me and go out of his way to tall to me that he was interested?? so im confused and now i feel like i shouldnt of asked him for his number.
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reader, Abella +, writes (25 August 2012):
 He may have been making polite conversation or was even being over-familiar. Or he has a crush on you ; or he has a major crush on you but lacks the courage to ask you outBut you threw him when you asked him for his number. Because he thought he was being ever so subtle and he thought he had plenty of time to get to know you at a pace that he was satisfied with.And I think he is an old fashioned guy so he wanted to get the opportunity to be more familiar with you over time.But you blew that out of the water when you asked for his number. You sucked the air out of his sails.He no longer felt in charge of things.So he got flustered to cover his confusion.So the ball is back in his court. Leave it there. He can pick up that ball or notHe may not pick that ball up for a while now. That is OK.Leave the ball in the air. And then let him finally do the running and initiate things. So that he feels like the Man trying to gain your trust all over again.Wait until he has the Chutzpah and the Courage to ask you out again. Hold steady. Let him feel as if he is in charge when he finally approaches you again.But do not walk him to his car Just allow him the excitement of feeling that he identified you and cajoled you and that finally he was man enough to win you, older and wiser than the earlier time
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