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writes:I hope that my question is appropriate to be posted. I edited it and re submitted it but i don't understand why it is being said that i am asking a new question. I am again asking the same question. My question concerns giving oral sex to a man. I happened to discuss the topic with my friends. They told me that they concentrate only on the head which i agree is very sensitive but in my own experience, i know that other areas too should be taken care of as fondling these areas with the tongue and mouth can give a lot of pleasure to a man. When i raid this to my friends, they told me that it is not important, they know better. So, did i get the wrong idea?M
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2014): Take your time , go slow , try different things ,pay attention to his reactions ,
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers. Yes i agree, changing rhythm may not be the right thing to do when a man is close. I wanted to say at the begining, it may be good to vary a bit but afterwards a constant one is better. Techniques are important for me.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (25 August 2014):
 Actually, Any and 'all the above' works just fine. To concern yourself over exact techniques is really dumb, just go at it any way you like and he'll like it too. Don't fret the small stuff.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 August 2014):
 actually I find that when they get closer that varying the rhythm will often ruin it for the guy.
Once he gets towards that "point of no return" you can change it up to keep it going longer or keep going just as you are to get him to finish... the same rhythm is very important..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes. From the body cues of the men, i know that they are enjoying it. They will moan and breathe deeply. Yes doing only the head can be boring. Up and down motion, same rhythm, i guess you have to vary the rhythm.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 August 2014):
the head gets too sensitive if you only focus on that.
most men like a firm suction on the shaft and yes some tongue play on the area below the scrotum and anal area is often desired as well.
also just like you are different from your friends each man has a different way of enjoying a blow job.... so you find out from the guy you are with exactly how he likes it... usually with experimentation and his verbal or body clues you will figure it out.
Part of the fun of a new relationship is figuring it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2014): It's pretty much like enjoying a lollipop or a popsicle.
Most men will guide you and tell you what he likes. So you didn't really have to ask here.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (25 August 2014):
Your friends read too much Cosmo. Watch some pornographic and see if the women only concentrate on the head. Even if it's the most sensitive spit you can over do it so you need to spread the stimulation out. Plus it's boring to only do one thing.
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