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writes:Here is my question...i am a down to earth laid back country girl, and the last guy that i dated tried to change a few things about me before we broke up and he made me feel bad about myself. Now when a guy ask me for my number or flirts with me the things my ex bf made me feel bad about myself make me feel like every guy that likes me is out of my league. Does anyone have any advice on how to over come this situation about why i am not confident about who i am? If so please let me know i do appreciate everyone's opinion and thanks for taking the time to read my problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to thank everyone that helped me with my situation about my ex bf. It really opened my eyes and i do appreciate everyone taking their time to help me :)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 You have low self esteem, low self image and low self confidence.No thanks to your ex b/f who abused you .
You need to change your image and grow some confidence and self esteem. You can Google for those tips on how to increase your self esteem and confidence.
Don't just swallow all what people say. Always be critical of what you hear or read.
It is like eating fish , eat the meat and spit out the bones. Accept what is the truth and spit out those lies.
Everyone is unique and special and don't compare with others.
You are not here to please the world. You are here to please yourself. What others think of you is unimportant, but what you think of yourself is vital.
reference
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Reyes1.html
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 March 2010):
He does it knowing you will feel hurt. So just cut all contact and ignore him. Truth is you're out of his league. He's the village idiot.
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reader, yikes! +, writes (6 March 2010):
Well done for getting rid of him, but don't let him get in the way of other relationships! You sound like a really nice person, no matter what some idiot says! I mean, any guy loves a proper, laid-back country gal!
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reader, yikes! +, writes (6 March 2010):
Well done for getting rid of him, but don't let him get in the way of other relationships! You sound like a really nice person, no matter what some idiot says! I mean, any guy loves a proper, laid-back country gal!
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (6 March 2010):
 Some people want a round peg to fit in a square hole. Just because your ex-boyfriend wanted you to fit in a square hole doesn't mean that was the right fit for you. He's just one dude out of a sea of millions, and frankly, his opinion is just that - HIS LONELY UNSUPPORTED OPINION! Don't let his sour grapes attitude stop you from having fun and living your life. It's your life. Make the most of it! The other guys see you as a pretty, likeable woman, so frankly your ex was as wrong as wrong can be.
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