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writes:I have been talking to this girl for over six months, somewhere around there we had a problem which began a lot of tension from there on, now she will talk to me if I want to talk to her and go places with me if I want to go places, etc but I have been trying to keep my distance because sometimes I dont know if she is playing games because she told someone she likes me but one day I saw her and didnt speak to her at all then when she saw me the next time she was walking with someone who I know is nothing more than a friend and she started to hug up on him and I could tell he didnt know why she was hugging him so much from his facial expression of being lost or getting his lucky day! lol is she just trying to make me jealous or what? Should I act as if I didnt notice? or act like I'm mad? or just make it joke with her? because no-lie I am better looking than the other guy lol
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (3 June 2009):
 First off, you have written the longest sentence I have seen in years...lol
Paragraphs are your friend, young man.
Secondly, you are "talking" to her. That means according to you that you and her are not exclusive. So in reality she is allowed to do whatever she feels like, right? Aren't you?
So go do your thing. If you two get together, fine. If not, oh well. Don't even react to the incident at all
Lastly, regardless of looks, it truly takes what a person has inside that counts. There are many beautiful people on the outside that are complete monsters and uglier than Frankenstein on the inside. Whether you look good or not, good looks will only get you so far in your future relationships.
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reader, deadheart123  +, writes (3 June 2009):
you should tell her how you feel, though that might ruin your relationship with her. depends on the kind of person, if shes the kind that does not get mad easily and understands then you should tell her how you feel. if not then you get to pick between telling her how you feel and hoping for the best, act like you dont really care, make her jealous, or just end the friendship with her. if it was me in that situation i would try to make some new friends and let her go, yes it is very hard to let her go, but with time you can do it.
this exact situation happened to me once, i told her how i felt and she got mad over it. but soon i fixed the problem and stayed normal friends with her, took me a few weeks to let her go, but i did it. i also made a few new friends. you gotta set her aside and move on with your life.
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