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What does orgasm mean?

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Question - (22 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2007)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

ok i got a quick question

my girlfriend says i can make her cum everytime she as sex but i always thought when a girl comes its an organism but my girl said i've never never made her organism ever

does that mean im rubbish in bed?

or does that mean shes been lieing 2 me and not comeing whilie haveing sex

my girl said she never moans in bed since she was raped its just something shes give up on

any help would be great

question is what does organism mean?

i always thought it mean u cum.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007):

Basically, if you guys are both so uneducated about this stuff then you shouldn't be doing at all. 'Orgasm' and 'cummung'both mean the same thng so your girlfriend is mistaken when she says she's cum but has never had an orgasm with you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007):

first off its orgasm not organism. having an orgasm and cumming are basically the same thing. secondly, if your girlfriend suffered rape in the past, theres a good chance its negatively affected her ability to enjoy sex. after rape, many girls stop thinking of sex as an enjoyable thing, or a thing to get excited about. which isnt your fault and doesnt mean youre bad in bed, but its not her fault either. if shes not a 'moaner' then thats just her; its not essential to anyones enjoyment that she makes a lot of noise. be understanding about it.

im actually a bit confused by one point of your question; you say your gf tells you that you make her cum everytime but then you say she says youv never made her orgasm. i think perhaps she is as clueless as you about it. maybe shes not lying, just confused. perhaps she is confusing cumming with getting wet, as a girl does when shes turned on.

i think you guys both need to do a bit of homework about sex.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (22 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntWell, orgasm is a series of events that take place in your body as a result of sexual activity. However, I think "cum" is a much easier explanation of what orgasm is.

It seems a contradiction, however, that first she says she has them and then she says she doesn't. Maybe you didn't get her meaning right?

Some people will find your lovemaking lousy, and some others will love it (unless, of course, it's real bad). I don't think this is the case here.

Now, she doesn't have to moan all the time. Some women do, some don't, some do on occasion.

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