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What does my ex want from me?

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Question - (4 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, *il_blue writes:

What does it mean when your ex says she hates you and she tells you she haves a boyfriend but wont say his name. like this Saturday she call me 2 times and i didnt pick up the phone. she was mad because she said her son wanted to come over to my house and play with my kids. then ask if i would watch our son we have together and her son tonight so she can go to work for a few hrs.

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2011):

angelDlite agony auntsounds like she may be bitter at you coz of what you've done (flirting with women and then lying about it)if you don't answer your phone when she rings you her mind probably goes into overdrive imagining that you're with someone and that's why you don't answer, so she wants to hurt your feelings too by making you think she's got a new man. if she knows that you still love her and would do anything for her it is her choice to make now as to whether she wants to get back with you and try to trust you again

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A male reader, lil_blue United States +, writes (5 January 2011):

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we have been split up for 6 months and it was because of mw that we split up like talk to other girls on the phone say things to them that i should not have said and lie about it when she would see the texts.i would get mad when she would go out to the bars when i would be working all night even tho i knew she would not do anything with any other guys. but like now we fight about stupid thing just about everyday and she lives up the street from me so she drives by my house to go to work and i have seen her and i have been told that every time she drives by she looking down at my house. and texts me asking the stupid thing like when does the mail come. so i dont know what is going on with us. like she knows i still love her and want her back and i would do anything for her and our son and her other son that she had before i meet her

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

don't know how long you have been split up or any details of the split so i can only go on my experience which is that at first, i really didn't want to have anything to do with my ex, the father of my son but i had to still have contact because he would come to pick our son up from the house, or need to ring me about him. in time it gets lots easier when all the issues surrounding the break up have settled down. we get on really really good now but in the early days i never thought that would happen, i just resented the fact that i had no choice but to still have involved in my life (and i'm sure he felt the same way about me) to get through this as easily as possible i would just advise the both of you to not antagonise each other, like don't be awkward about sharing the childcare and money arrangements

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