A
female
age
,
anonymous
writes:what is man really saying when he says "i'm busy"? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, DV1 +, writes (21 May 2007):
 When a guy says he's busy, it means he's really frustrated about something, and he's trying to spare you from hearing about it. Depending on the tone in his voice, it can also mean that he's upset with you about something, and needs time to sort it out. Talk to them about it after a few days have passed.
DV1
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007): you havent really supplied much info to go on to answer the question. Under what cicumsatnces is he telling you he's busy. He might be.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007): do you get the same "i'm busy" excuse from him often? no man is ever too "busy" if he really is interested in you. he would make time for you if he really was.
sorry hun, but he just really isn't into you.
...............................
A
female
reader, Pork Hock  +, writes (21 May 2007):
Ask him busy with what exactly? Think about the time and place too...I put my Dad's blackberry in a wine cooler one evening when he was 'busy' on it...I had had enough of half conversations and that he was busy...with work. I did object it was a Sunday lunchtime and I thought that it just took the biscuit he had the nerve to be busy when he had invited me for lunch. Believe me this had been an ongoing problem so my outburst was perhaps extreme but I hadn't asked him in the beginning busy with what? And this is my Dad not a boyfriend or husband. By the way he had just lost my mother, his wife and basically he ignored me and threw himself in his work rather than talking to me...there is always a reason. Or he really is busy with way too much stuff and gets more of a kick from 'being busy' and telling everyone 'how busy he is' to actually enjoy it...don't let yourself be sucked into his busy schedule where you are waiting for him, being let down for dates etc you know what I mean...I had to put a blackberry in a wine cooler to get my Dad's attention, which is not the right way.
...............................
A
male
reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (21 May 2007):
What's a woman really saying when she says, "I have a headache."?
Sorry, either he's actually really busy, or he isn't. The questions I have for you are, is there anything you can do to help him be less busy? Does he want your help?
Is he a good man? Or is he not?
Stress is not good for a male's libido, and sometimes our libido can influence our desire for human contact and connection. Not necessarily for sex, but for that intangible connection with someone we care for and who cares for us. Sometimes stress can make us narcissistic and careless for her feelings.
It happens. To both genders.
You haven't given us much to go on though, so I hope this little bit can help you decide how much you really want to share.
...............................
|
