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What do you think about my LDR, ex girlfriend?

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Question - (8 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, *romiker writes:

Well I have been with this, girl for almost three yrs now, and I'm not sure on really what she want's? She ask's for me back said she want's, to move on before but she can't, get over me. Why can't she get over me, I mean she said, she has wanted to move on before, did not talk to me for, months went to Europe all ready with her aunt, so she is not AFRAID, to fly any more? witch that's one thing she said that's why she did not want to come over because she was AFRAID of flying. But now it's because she is working a'lot and is, getting a new job soon but she just went to Europe a month ago? Oh, and had money for that to witch she does not have money now to come visit me? So I don't know why she want's me back if she, won't even visit me over here. I mean I even wen't over there twice to be with her? Is she just playing games with me, I mean, I have know her for three yrs and she has not even, came over here to visit me yet? I don't know, I'm just really lost, and asking for help, I don't know what to do with her, I mean, I'm still in love with her, but do to her, doing this to me, I'm really losing the thing with her now because she won't even come and see me. So what do you thank, I should do move on and not pick up her phone call's. I'm trying, to get a job so, I can move out now into my own place so maybe Ill just stick to that now any help would be great full thank's!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011):

Maybe she doesn't have money to visit you right now BECAUSE she just got back from Europe.

But if she continually makes excuses about why she can't come see you, it's likely she just doesn't WANT to. In her mind, you two are over romantically.

I think you should move on.

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