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writes:me and m gf broke up a month ago and she is already dating someone so what do you do when the person you love has moved on? how do you fight what your heart says and finally let them go if u were really in love with them. She wants to be friends and we met up last night and our chemistry was too much to handle. we were sitting close and touching hands, but then after all that she goes back to her bf. she is always tellin me how she needs me in her life cause we been so important to eachtohher for 4 years and all this though. and she told me the other day she looked at a poem i wrote her and cried so hard.she says i mean the world to her and stuff bt she has a BOYFRIEND. i would lie to have her as a friend but i dont want to live with knowing that he could e the one for her and she may be happier with him then me, but the way she acts makes me want to old on..help plz!?!?
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reader, melanie01  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 A part of her still loves you that's why she is holding on to you. Dont linger on this though. The best thing you can do for your self preservation is to get rid of everything that reminds you of her. Do not keep one thing. Cut off all contact with her and focus on another aspect of your life. I wish i could tell you a quick fix to heart break but only time can heal that. Most importantly surround yourself with your family and friends they will help you through the hard parts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): if she has moved on so fast i think you would be better keeping it like that
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