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anonymous
writes:So this is probably a dumb question, but how do guys feel about the different "shapes and sizes" of a woman down there? I was curious because I stumbled on a message board where some guys were saying they preferred a woman to have "big lips down there" and some prefer them to be "tucked in." I'm a virgin and this makes me even more nervous now! lol Reply to this Question |
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reader, pyan  +, writes (9 March 2008):
Hi
speaking from a guy point of view, they are all nice. i myself like the outer best (my wife)as it looks more womenly, than an inner.
as some of the others have sex during sex they change. i expect whoever gets to see it will love it as its pat of you.
good luck and message if you have an questions
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reader, Ask oldersister + ♥, writes (9 March 2008):
 I must be pretty naive, I am 35yrs old and never thought about this type of thing until this year! I have a close friend that happened to mention to me that she had "big labia" according to her OBGYN. Then I start seeing a few of these questions pop in and I'm wondering what the big fuss is about it. It seems like we are in an era of too much perfection and insecurities about our bodies. I think if you had some abnormality you would have noticed so I wouldn't even give it a second thought. Plus, your boyfriend should be overwhelmed by the mere fact you're willing to get naked infront of him, any guy that acts otherwise and comments on your body (you have a wierd vagina) should be dumped immediately. Now, penis size is another thing all together!!
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reader, DoubleM + ♥, writes (9 March 2008):
 How do men feel about the variety there? In my opinion, most healthy men simple love the differences. Guess I can really only speak for myself, however, and in that vein, I've rarely met one I did not consider splendid. Even the one or two that were unsatisfying to me looked fine, but the girls had extremely large (loose) vaginas which did not provide quite enough feeling during intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): Well it varies a LOT, maybe as much as penisses but I only got one of those so don't know how much they vary in real life.Some women have only a slit, and even that can vary, my current gf when she is standing normally you can barely see it. Other women have a far larger slit and thick outer lips and in the inner lips potruding and everything in between. http://1001vaginas.com/ have a look here (warning NOT SAFE FOR WORK) to get an idea of just how different women can look down there, there are better examples of this because a lot of women have issues with how they look.It also changes when you get arroused especially if yours is tucked in and small normally. In reality the male erection is NOTHING compared to the swelling that goes on inside a woman's body and part of this is visible on the outside. How much? Well that depends your body.4chan.org is a image board that has a sexy beautifull women board. Men post pictures of girls there. It is a constant warzone because no 2 men can agree on what qualifies as a sexy beautifull woman. You will get anythere from fully clothed asian girls to BBW doing a predator impression (pulling your lips apart).A common debate is wether women should be shaved or not. Note that there is a strong suspicion that those who are the most obsessed about a woman conforming to their ideas of what a woman should look like are the most likely to be virgins living in their mothers basement.What I am trying to say is that most men don't really care about it that much. Sure we ALL have an image of the perfect woman in our mind BUT most of us are mature enough toaccept that a woman in your hand beats one in your mind.Oh and if he is really nasty about the way you look, laugh at his penis but most importantly, dump the son of a bitch. Get a guy who loves you and doesn't expect you to look like some porn star he has seen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): Hey anonTo be honest, if your loosing your virginity to the right guy, he loves you and you love him, he wont give a toss wether youve got big lips, small lips, tucked in lips, no lips!! he will love you for you and any lips will do fine =)dont worry about what he thinks, all guys are differentgood luckk x
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