A
female
age
,
anonymous
writes:The new man in my life asked me what things I would like to do to him. He told me to use my imagination. The only things I have ever done before was a blowjob and lick and suck on mens balls. My exhusband would not allow me to do alot. Just the normal things every guy wants. I am not sure what other things he would like to have done to him. I would like to surprise him. What other things do men like to have done to them??
View related questions:
blow-job, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, happy140 +, writes (4 July 2012):
 One of the things I like most is the all day tease. Throughout the day whisper in his ear things like I can’t wait to suck your c—k, and during the day have a grab here and there. Be brave and sneak him off to the bathroom for a 30 second suck and say I am going to give you the best BJ tonight but not now and put him away, it isn’t easy when its hard but its fun!! Whisper in his ear while at lunch how wet you are and grab a handful of c—k. Just make the day one long sex session.
Some men like a foot job, want to know if he does? Sit across from him at the table and rub him with your foot, did he get hard? Tell him to put him out there because you want to touch it.
There is next to NOTHING you could possibly do that a man wouldn’t like. If you do it and he does not get hard them move to something else.
The all day’er is a friggin killer, 8 or ten hours of almost a steady hard on. And thing whispered in my ear.
NEVER EVER NEVER NEVER EVER NEVER EVER EVER NEVER NEVER do that all day and say, rain check honey, I’m tired. That leads to serious resentment. HOWEVER we are NOT ANIMALS and understand headaches and other situations come up, be honest and explain why the rain check with a promise of tomorrow!
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2012): Tease their mind - sex doesn't have to start in the bedroom ......
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2012): Well, not "nothing" but you know what I mean.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2012): Jam your fingers up his butt, that would be a big surprize hehe. Don't do that by the way I was only joking, unless he specifically asks of course.
We love the tease as long it eventually is followed up by action. Look there are a million different little things you can do, but don't go over the top and be too elaborate. We guys are exceptionally easy to please in that sense. Save the ice cubes and stuff for a later date and just enjoy his body. You know? Have him lay there and just do your thing and pay lots of attention to the most obvious place.
Just start with your hand, use your mouth and then hop on. Or any combination of those. He's a new man, just get him off for now the ways you know how and get to know his body and familiar with how he likes things before you over complicate things. Nothing beats a good blow job OP.
...............................
A
female
reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 July 2012):
 All men are different as am sure you know, this man sounds like he wants to experiment a bit while your husband just liked things kept simple. Different things turn on different men, therefore just try out a few things and see what he seems to respond to more. Teasing someone is always a good way to add some excitement in to the bedroom therefore maybe bring to bed some ice cubes you could use in your mouth to explore his body or even have some edible body paint. Maybe dress up for him and try something new that you would like.
...............................
A
male
reader, Nehemie Mb  +, writes (1 July 2012):
Well, this is kinda unfair for him to ask you to come up with something 'imaginative' to please him. I mean, with all you've said what else is there to do/give?The thing is, some men have fantasies and fetishes, there are general similarities like blowjobs that most men like, but even then, every man has a particular way they like it performed. The differences are so significant that they make every man really unique in their tastes. So, for him to ask you to find out something that would put him ablaze without giving you any hints/compass, really amounts to him sending you on a witch haunt while riding a wild goose! You could try role play, and even then you would have to find a theme that excites him. Well, you don't necessarily have to come up with something extremely raunchy. Part of a successful sexual relationshp is something very teasing given to you gradually. That's the reason why guys love blowjobs: it's not really sex, but is so very exciting enough to make you want to [place your optional "desperately" here] have sex.So, come up with something imaginative, but very very teasing! You don't have to reinvent the wheel (actually I don't see how you would do that, lol), imaginative doesn't mean innovative. Use what you already have, but supercharge it with electricity and thunder somehow! Have fun! :)
...............................
|
