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writes:This sounds a bit weird but my boyfriend is really skinny and when we have missionary position sex his pelvic bone/hip bones really dig into my thighs. It really hurts and i even have bruises! Does that usually happen or are we doing something wrong?!How can i encourage my shy, inexperienced boyfriend to go down on me? Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2012): "Does that usually happen or are we doing something wrong?!" You probably are OP, just keep adjusting your position and use your arms to control how hard he goes too until you find a way of doing it that stops the bruising.
"How can i encourage my shy, inexperienced boyfriend to go down on me? Any advice?"
I wouldn't have a talk with him OP, you may end up making him feel like he's on the spot. Next time you're fooling around and he's kissing your belly just tell him to go lower, or you could just whisper in his ear while you're fooling around that you want him to "eat you" or (forgive me for being crude) "eat your pussy" kind of thing or you could just gently place your arms on his head while he's down near that area and gently push him down towards it, or you go down on him first them pop back up and say "now do me".
In my opinion it's much easier to get things done in the heat of the moment than it is to sit someone down and talk to them about it. That way it's not made into a big deal you're not putting a shy inexperienced guy on the spot.
You'd be surprized what you can get a guy to do in the heat of the moment if you use the right words.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 July 2012):
 No am sure you are not doing anything wrong I guess it is just because his hip bones stick out. If it is more comfortable for you then you go on top or just try out different positions and see which one suits you both.
As for encouraging him to go down on you, well there really is not much you can do here. Talk to him and ask him what it is that makes him not want to do it. Some people do not like giving oral sex and therefore if this is the case you just need to respect that. If he is just scared in case he gets it wrong then tell him you will guide him.
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