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writes:i'll try to make this short.i 've known this girl for almost 3 years -lets call her Lailo. a couple of months ago i finally asked myself why i smile for an hour after i talk to her everyday,why i stay up all night talking to her before a really important math test,why i think of her when "da hottest girl in da world " discussions cm up in my gang of friends.eventually i asked her out and she said yes.it was SO magical that 1st month.we talked all night and nvr got bored.then somethign changed.she kept telling me abt this other guy she met every day who was "so hot,nice and funny" (i l8ter foudn out she made him up just to make me jealous) and i didn kno why she was doing this.i nvr ignored her,i nvr talked ot other girls,ppl say im reasonably funny,i evn wrote her poetry that her friends LOVED and she was like "huh? ya it rhymes i guess" eventually she ignored me and one day she broke up with me.now shes leaving for canada on 2 weeks and i still love her.we havnt talked for months and i dont kno what to say before she goes.she still luks at me sometimes in school.can someone help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Shes been messing you around, seeing how far she can push you.
If its only vacation, then whats the point in talking to her. She'll be coming back. Talk to her once she's had a relaxing time and space to think. Then if she doesn't like you except it and move on. Easier said than done, but thats all you can do.
If its forever, then I suggest you tell her how you feel but don't expect anything. Besides shes moving away forever. Nothing would ever happen again, and you'd have to get over her.
The future looks pretty bleak. Only really if its vacation and she starts being a bit more mature would this relationship work out. I think partly if you do just leave her alone, then she'll come running back.
But I wouldn't use that as hope.
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