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writes:I met this woman over a month ago and we have been out twice. The past 2-3 weeks she has been busy with work to apply for a uni course so I haven't seen her (we have stayed in touch via texts, and spoke 2 times). I really like her and I'm sure she likes me (but how much I don't know) and I have just made the step of texting her that I really want to get to know more about her, and hope she felt the same. Her response was "yeah, yeah, whatever....hahaha! x". I told her I was serious and said to have a nice weekend. She then said she was in a funny mood today and we would speak soon. I need to know what she might mean?
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Hi,
i've just read up the advice on this....i got the impression as she was busy with university etc, you were probably being too heavy by being too serious at this time. However, good news at hand that she wants to meet up sometime. (the "sometime" worries me a bit as it's slightly vague!) If I were you, play it cool now and let her communicate. Just wait for her, even if you think it is right for you to communicate, hold back until she does. Hope all works out and let us all know how you go. H.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis was before when I spoke on the phone but I was too embarrased about telling her that I wanted to know her more because I was at work with my boss close by. She hasn't said anything about changing her mind though.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 That sort of changes things. She has agreed to see you. However, be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe have already kind of planned to see each other next week sometime but haven't arranged anything just yet because I want to wait until she gets her work out of the way which will be at the end of the week. Trying to be cool and not ease too much pressure.
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reader, Emmy-Lou +, writes (19 March 2008):
 It's possible that she may have had a difficult relationship and feels that you may be making fun of her vulnrability.She may have said that she was having a 'funny day' because she was shocked by the fact that you were being serious.You will soon learn that vulnerable women take many things as a joke and can sound quite harsh, but our barks are worse than our bites.Hope this helps and ood luck.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (19 March 2008):
I'm sorry, but this sounds bad. I suppose she could have texted you back something like "Yep, I want to get to know you too. Can we meet, say, next (day of the week)?" She didn't do that; instead, she dismissed what you said, and said you would speak "soon". How soon is soon, we don't know. And maybe I'm a bit paranoid but to me it seems to me that she hinted SHE will communicate with you. Which means you shouldn't call her.
If you want to try, wait for a little while, without calling her or communicating with her at all. That will remove all doubts about her words. But don't wait too long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Try talking in person instead of texting, texting is a receipe for disaster. I would wait see what happens when you meet up. There was a 'x' in her text so i guess your ok. Again, use your MOUTH, dump the texts they just don't work.
Good luck
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