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writes:Hi cupid Thanks for this opportunity, i had a relationship wid a guy a 1 yrs ago,he was never commited n never willing to take a step ahead bt i blindly met him once we did nt ve sex bt he touch me all over and after few days he told me he was getting married i was broken in to piece and was looking for love and care from other ppl.And i found all these qualities in a married man who was my boss that time... He slowly came in my life as a frnd , bt later on he started tellin me he loved me he use to gv me all that which i never got from my 1st relation. Then he started kissing me ,touch me today after one yr i feel i ve almost gven my every thing to this man who again can not gve me any thing..We ve done oral sex and anal sex bt never complete sex. From last few days he is demanding complete sex n i do nt deny the fact that i ve started to enjoy his hands on my boby bt i am scared n i always wanted to remain virgin for my husband... pls help n tell me wat to do n also tell me weather i am still virgin or nt? why god has not made mr right for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): Sex won't get or keep a man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAs i ve already told u abt my codition i would really love to hear from u again .. i tried to keep this man away from my life the more i think of keeping him away the more desprately i want him . i know i can never get him bt now i am very afraid of losing him..I feel if i be wid him i loosing my self n when i am away him i feel i lost my life. Some times i feel he is just using me and the very moment i feel i am thinking wrong pls reply
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all who answered this question I never thought I will use such a site to express my views or discuss my life so privately, u all made me feel comfortable n relaxed. Today when i turned back the pages of my life i found that I nt only got physical close wid this married man bt also emotionally and mentally. There r many sweet n sour memories.Where ever I look I find him near me. I know it sounds insane bt i truely love him.
I do not know how to come out of it i want to forget him bt i also want to be wid him...
This is especially for the second reply i think it is nt abt attractiveness but abt luck and destiny.. I can say perhaps my bad luck.
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (26 August 2008):
Its only human nature to enjoy the feel of a mans hands on your body but if you are serious about waiting until you are married then dont give in to pressure.
You are still young don't worry Mr. Right is out there. Dont give up yet!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 Oral and anal? Well strictly speaking, you are still a virgin but morally, no.
You seem to attract guys that only want to use you, why? Do others not find you attractive or are you only attracted to this kind of guy?
You need to take charge of your own life, from the way you talk it seems you just let things happen to you.
One thing to consider is that Mr Right might have passed you by while you were messing about with these two guys. Break it off, learn to masturbate and get backbone.
Then decide what type of guy you want to be with and try to find him. Mr Right is unlikely to fall for you while you are on the desk getting it in the rear by your boss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): Perhaps you are putting yourself out there in the wrong way? Messing with married men will never get you anywhere, not to mention how much it hurts the wife.
If this man is willing to commit to you and only you, he will do so. Don't rush anything, give it time. Tell him how you feel about the situation. Don't give him what he wants just to satisfy him. You need to respect yourself and in time, you're true Mr. Right will come. And he won't be married (hopefully). ;)
Hope this helps!
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