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reader, Southboy +, writes (7 May 2009):
fantise about what turns you on and be verbal even if it's out of character
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reader, Too Sensitive +, writes (15 December 2008):
Things that you wouldn't normally say otherwise...
My fiance and I do not refer to our body parts with offensive language or curse words...except sometimes when we are in the bedroom. It's naughty and adds to the whole experience!
He likes dirty talk sometimes, such as when I say something like, "I love how your big hard c**k feels sliding in and out of my hot wet p***y", "I can't believe how you make me so wet for you"...you get the drift.
Though it's not "dirty" talk, he also seems to like it when I comment favorably to him, such as "your hairy chest and torso are such a huge turn-on for me"...and he knows I really mean it, b/c that IS how I feel. I say this sometimes when I am grazing and working my way down with my mouth...
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reader, petina1 +, writes (14 December 2008):
That is so funny 'shania'. lol!
And on another note tell him you would like him to watch while you make love to your best friend 'another female' of course.
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reader, shania + ♥, writes (14 December 2008):
Well there are a number of things that you can say to him like....I want to lick the whole of your shaft while i play with your hairy balls....or, i want to finger your hole while i tongue you all over....the list is endless.....Good luck.
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reader, Even Numbers +, writes (14 December 2008):
Generally, letting them know what a good job they are doing (ie: that feels so good), and perhaps complimenting their...*ahem*...manhood, is a good way to get him going.
The most fulfilling sex I had was with a man who enjoyed verbal communication during sex. He enjoyed hearing how much I was enjoying the experience, how satisfying the size of his appendage was, and was always turned on when I told him exactly what I wanted him to do.
Also, your confidence plays a big part in his enjoyment. Never feel afraid to suggest and experiment with new positions and techniques. So long as it is something you want to do. The fellow I mentioned above was very curious and would often make suggestions, and it made love-making quite interesting and ALWAYS satisfying. More importantly, he was never pushy about it, and could take no for an answer.
Leafing through a Kama Sutra book together before sex is a great way for couples to communicate about what they would like in bed, and it can be an incredibly bonding, trust-building experience. Your man will enjoy it, no doubt!
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