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What am I to him?

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Question - (28 August 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 51-59, *hippy2 writes:

I know you have all given me great advice and I am getting help and getting closer but need some more opinions please!

The guy I am seeing has allowed his 11yr old to interfere with our relationship - he never reprimands her or talks to her about it - I am furious - she sends me mean text has hung up has tried to fix him up with her friends moms - she used to adore me until he told I hit him - which wasnt true - So why wont he say anything to her?

He and I are somewhat together but I see again that he wants to be with me - sending text and playful phone calls and dinner together and snuggling then I see he is still on and active on DATING SITES! I dont think he has gone out with anyone but he is emailing and calling I am sure.

What should I do? We have been together 3 yrs and he knows this is an issue for me but ignores it - He has asked me to go to work with him tonight and I know he will get pissy if I dont go - but I have to take care of my daughter and he allowed his daughter to command his day without me today again!

Some say I should overlook the Dating Site thing since he hasnt gone out - but I am so uneasy about it - Like I am always on the verge of being replaced -

He and I had such a lovely homemade dinner and time last night - why is he like that? He never tells me I am pretty anymore but he did say dinner was excellent

Please advise - I am not sure what I am to him - his b-day is coming up and due to his shabby treatment of me I really dont want anything to do with planning anything.

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