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36-40,
*sma_asd
writes:Dear cupidMe and my bf are dating for the past 6 months and we were friends for an year. I am in a different country now cause of my job, would go back to my home town within 2-3 months. My bf is in my home town. I moved to this new place a month back. So for a month we are in LDR (Long distance relation). Everything was going fine until 2 days back. I used to call him in a daily basis and we chat for abt 30 mins. 2 days back i asked him to call me, since i was the one always making calls. He never did and when i called him, he said forgot. I was so pissed off, that i scolded him and hung up the call. After that he never called me, its been 2 days. He never sent me any mails, i called him today thrice to see whats happening and sent a mail also, he never picked up the call and didnt reply for that mail too. We dont have any mutual friends and i dont know what else to do now.Please help me. Do i think i should call him again and see? But what i asked him (to call me atleast few times, so i dont feel i am the only one always calling) is not an impossible thing to do. Do you think he might have broken up with me? I am really devistated, i dont have any friends in this new place, i am all alone here, i dont know what to do. Please help me.
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reader, asma_asd +, writes (3 September 2010):
asma_asd is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi All
Thanks for the reply, i called him again today, he said he was busy at work and home, so was not able to reply my mails or call me. Anyway i am not going to call him for few days, since i am too available for him, i guess he is taking me for granted.
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reader, asma_asd +, writes (3 September 2010):
asma_asd is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe never called me once for the past 1 month, i was the once who used to call him and its also taking financial strain on me, so asked him to call once in a while atleast. I dont think its an unreasonable request and moreover we talked about this few times before and he used to promise me that he'll call, but he never did and i used to forgive him. This time i really got pissed off.
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (3 September 2010):
it sounds like he cant be bothered to make the same effort that you are making. I would be quite annoyed aswell, I would say just ignore him for now and if you still dont hear from him in a week then tell him what you think of him. asking him to call you is not unreasonable
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