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writes:ok quick question! is it normal to get wet when a guy touches me? and its not even in a sexual way. i think this is the reason i am still a virgin cause i am embarrassed about this!! please someone answer this "silly" question! thanks too!!
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reader, MissKin + ♥, writes (17 January 2008):
Yep! It's perfectly normal as the other people have said.
I have this same issue lol. I was a bit weirded out at first, since I seemed to be physically turned on even though i didn't have a reason to be.
It's nothing to be embarassed about but I understand why you feel that way (because I did too at first) but it's definitely a good thing and means you have good sexual energy. Your boyfriend won't know about it until you start doing sexually orientated things, in which case he'll appreciate the fact that you're turned on.
Don't feel embarassed and don't feel afraid to talk to your boyfriend about this because communication is important when it comes to sex.
Never do anything until you're completely ready - both mentally and physically, regardless of what your body is telling you lol.
Best wishes,
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): if that didnt happen it wouldnt be normal!
its your bodys natural lubricant honey
maybe the fact that you get wet so often is your bodies way of telling you to stop worrying, be confident and go and get a man!
good luck
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reader, Annalisa +, writes (17 January 2008):
Yes, it's not only normal: it's vital to good sex! When a man touches or even just talks sexy and cuddles you, the vagina gets moist and relaxed, so you can have painless intercourse. Sex involves a lot of friction between his dry penis and your vagina, so if you didn't get wet you would overheat and get really sore. The more you get wet, the more he'll know he's doing his bit right too!
Some women also ejaculate when climaxing and men love this!
So go have some fun and don't worry!
(Of course, make sure you play safe by always getting him to wear a condom.)
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (17 January 2008):
It's perfectly normal, even if the touching isn't "sexual" it's just you getting turned on and preparing for sex.
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