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writes:After 15 years of marriage, my husband told me that he didn't want to be married anymore. Now, it is important to mention I did something very wrong a cople of years ago. I deceived him and basically committed a felony. He was crushed. He cites that the reason that he left is because he doesn't trust me anymore. He had some drug issues thorughout our marriage and gambled as well. Now, I learned that he has been talking to his high school sweetheart off and on our entire marriage. This is all new to me and my heart aches every morning I get up. He moved to the town that we grew up in, but also where HER parents live. I have filed for divorce and we are just waiting the 60 days now. I guess my question is, how do I get through THIS part of the waiting game; i.e. all the thoughts that are going thorugh my head???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): I have empathy with you. I have been trough a divorce myself and yes it is not always easy. There is lots of emotions to deal with. I suggest you get things to keep yourself occupied as much as possible. Start a new hobby or start studing something, just find things to keep your mind busy. The less time you have to think the easier. It worked for me and I sure hope it will help you to.
Good luck!
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