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writes: I just don't know what to do. I've been married to my second husband 13 years. We met when I was married to my first husband at the time.Things happened very fast and we married and had a child all within a year. I never showed him much affection over the years and the relationship is not good, but know I have discovered he has been having affairs behind my back.We are trying to work through all of this but will he cheat again when he is low. Now he has lost his job which will put more pressure on.I'm going through the menopause as well,and what my own space. I just don't know what to do.
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reader, QueenB75 +, writes (20 October 2005):
Well you have a lot of decisions to make and giving the nature of your relationship it seems you didnt give much time to dating each other and establishing a relationship instead of rushing to get married and having a baby in such a short amount of time which can have dire consequences since you didnt really know your husband before getting married. I would suggest you try marriage counseling to help iron out some of the issues you're having.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 October 2005):
 You cheated with him with your first husband so you knew he had no honor or integrity right off the bat. Of course neither did you for that matter. Cheaters are cheaters. You just prove you reap what you sow.
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