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writes: im 14 and my boyfriends only 12 i no its not a huge age gap but it feels like it at my age . well getting to the point my friends think im wierd because the 2 years age gap and saying i should find some my own age . what should i do listen to my friends or follow my heart? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2006): Pleeeaaaase, I need help. My parents are happily married but they are 12 years apart. I dunno if thats still common now (bit like billie piper) but i'm not sure. I like this guy, im 13 and he's nearly 22. Nobody really likes him too much and he's never had a girlfriend. We are friends and im just not sure what to do really. its only a 9 yr difference!!!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (4 April 2006):
 I would echo the majority opinion here, you have to go with what feels right for you not what your friends think is right. Ultimately, no matter how close the friend, you are the one that knows your own heart and mind best. Friends often advise because they care about you so you need to be gentle when asserting yourself, recognise they are being friendly but gently assert your own will. Real friends will respect that and support you in your descisions.
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reader, agonyaunt247 +, writes (4 April 2006):
 There's no real age limit, but I am 14 and I'd never even DREAM about dating a younger guy. It's a little different when you're a older. If he's mature then maybe, but guys I know haven't even matured at that age. Just think about this sort of thing before you go running into relationships with people that are younger than you. I know that It's a different when the guy's older than the girl but that's just the way things are in our society.
Just do what you feel is right but take somethings into account before you go rushing into things like this.
Love always
Catt
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reader, GLforever +, writes (4 April 2006):
 Don't worry too much about what friends think. Real friends will support you in this matter.
I don't know why so many people are obsessed with differences in age. I think what really matters is how people treat each other, not how old they are.
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reader, tux  +, writes (3 April 2006):
 If it feels right to you, then I don't see why you would like to end it just because of your friends. You are still young and you'd learn about the whole age gap.. 2 years is nothing.. You are going to see that your friends will have something to say in all of your relationships... some you should take heed, others with a grain of salt. This to me is one of those you take with a grain of salt.
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reader, NOVEMBER TOPAZ +, writes (3 April 2006):
 hi jakkie i think that if u are happy going out with this boy then its your choice and if your friends are really true friend s then they will stand by u whatever decision you make but please remeber that everyone is entitled to there opinion and they can give you advice but the decision is yours to make please take care and be happy :)..topaz..
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