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41-50,
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writes:ok I have a gourgeous boyfriend who I thought adored me. We've been arguing over little and big things for a while- not least having to postpone our 2 week holiday to Thialand due to a washed passport.I'm 27, he's 29 and has a 10 year old son. We are due to go on holdiday in 6 days time, and he say's we're still going- however what I don't understand is that we're now on 'break' his call. we text and stuff, I'm giving him his space- however I have done nothing wrong. I told him I wouldn't have accepted the 'break' if id wasn;'t for the fact we've got a dream holiday booked next week- and that I would've called it off full stop. Coz its all or nothing, and I won't be messed around.I love him- i thought he was going to propose 2 weeks ago- and now this. We've been together 14 months and have talked openly about marriage and kids etc. I'm just confused and taking time out to have a laugh with the girls. Whats he playing at??? help
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reader, rcn  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 I agree with the other poster. Tell him sorry can't make the trip. You're on a break, that means anything that is planned between both of you during that time, now becomes solo plans. That's almost like people who break it off. One is not ready for commitment and the other one is, but they still sleep together. Why should he commit if he's getting it without a commitment.Would this be a trip where you'd be together, or is he expecting the break to continue and just because these plans were made he's willing to have you feel uncomfortable because of the situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): If you want to keep him, go to Thailand with him. I've been there. The western minded woman cannot comprehend the loveliness of Thai ladies and how they live to serve the man, make him feel masculine and powerful. That is my warning. I've lost my man to a little Thai lady, they now have a child and he is building them a house over there. You are warned.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (28 September 2007):
Refuse the trip to Thialand. Who starts and continues all those big and little arguments? Maybe he got cold feet. Maybe he's thinking he is not getting what he really wants from you. That's why there are so many divorces these days. It's all about the "me generation." "I won't be messed around" says it all. So, don't be.
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