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writes:My first wife left me 17 years ago, she re-married 13 years go and I re-married 10 years ago. She is the love of my life and I can't forget her. When she left me she told me she did not loved me anymore. I know I am stupid, but I think she still might think about me.I am getting close to 50 years old and I think I will never forget her and I think she is the only one that I will ever truly love. My wife is a good woman but I got married because I was lonely.Should I go after my ex after all these years and risk humilliation, rejection (again) and risk it all for the love I will never have again?I believe there is only one true love and she is that for me.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): so what happens to your present wife? does she hook up with your ex's husband.
get real. you want to cause your wife pain and suffering and torment her by going back to a woman that never loved you in the first place. you now want o desotry two marriages for what? a chance at love? if you both were so much in love, your divorce would not have taken place
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reader, missdimples3 +, writes (24 July 2010):
 its def. worth trying... do it for the last time. people change and hope your wife will understand. and to me having no husband is 10x better then having a husband thats in love with someone else. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): I would normally say because you got married only because you were lonely, nothing more, to risk throwing that away to go after the one you genuinely love. However, if she told you years ago when you split that she doesn't love you anymore, and then she remarried, chances are you'll still be the only one with those strong feelings left. Another reason not to, is she left you. Also, she may very well still think about you, but not care at all to live with you. Those are some things to seriously consider before chancing fate like that.
If there's a way you could try to communicate with her without being caught, and see how she feels about her marriage today, and how she feels about you then and now, go ahead and try it. I just can't see her being all gung ho about getting back together with you if she's the one who left you back then, and told you she fell out of love with you. That's a tough one, and only talking to her will give you a hint at whether it's worth trying for her or not.
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