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writes:I'am dating a guy and we spend a lot of time together, I was wondering how can I tell him I need some space nicely.H also wants to have sex with me and I'm not ready, how can I tell him ncely im not ready yet.
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 You could also make plans with your Gal pals and tell him you need a little room for girl time.
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (24 July 2010):
Just sit down with him and say I know you want to have sex, but the thing is I feel that I'm not ready and I need you to respect my wishes on that and not pressure me. Also for the space part hmm... first look into excuses are you in college or anything? If so you could tell him you need a little space from him so you can focus on your school work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): There is no nice way. Just tell him youre not ready. If he starts sweatin you as to why, what, etc then you know what he was looking for. And space? Same thing. "I need time to sort things out." A true man will respect a womans choice to give in when shes ready. You shouldnt have to feel pressured. So many woman suffer tremendously because they feel its their fault the guy broke up with them because he pretends to be hurt or insulted that you wouldnt have sex with him. Dont fall victim to that game.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (24 July 2010):
Well if you want your space all you have to do is say no to sex! and even if he gives up on the sex because he don't want to give you space at least you got one resolved! and if he runs because you wont have sex w/ him then you didn't lose anything good? just tell him you are not ready for sex and you want to take some time for yourself and if he doesn't understand? im sorry but take charge of your life! because you do not have to be w/ anyone you don't want to be w/ and that is your choice and your right!!Good Luck!
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