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I'm torn between two different guys

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Question - (24 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Here’s my story! Well I was dating this nice guy from school M who just wanted to go out with me, since we graduated. We went on one date and held hands the moment was perfect and he said he loved me. Whatever, my heart was just starting to get to know this guy. Then after three weeks he wasn’t the same and I knew we needed separation. I thought what we had was special and he was the first bad boy I dated. I quickly found out that he loved his tractors more than me. Even though we talked one night after break up and he said he didn’t hate me and I could talk to him. I still didn’t feel the same. This guy was everything I wanted in a boyfriend. Now I’m not talking to him anymore because I’m still hurt from the break up a lot. Before I dated this guy M I dated a guy named Adam. He was nice and I was still going to school. Adam broke up with me because we didn’t know each other. Then just after M broke up with me, Adam started texting me again. He apologized for breaking up and hurting my feelings. He knows that he never gave me a chance. I forgive him but I wish me and M were back together. Adam really wants to get back together but I really wish M would come back to me. I don’t know what to do because my heart is torn between two guys. Both broke my heart but I forgive them. Should I just stay single for now? I don’t think my heart could take anymore. I’m confused on what I want? Adams talking to me more than M. I don’t think M really wants me back but I don’t know that. I’m fighting for two guys.

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A female reader, missdimples3 United States +, writes (24 July 2010):

missdimples3 agony auntI think you need to take sometimes to heal! then decide who you wanna be with.. or should I say who thinks you are worthy enough to be there when you're ready to date again!

just take a break for now.. n tell them that. till you heal n get your heart back together then choose carefully! sometimes we just need to take the guy who loves us the most cuz he's the one who will always be there no matter what!

good luck

x

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