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female
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30-35,
*ayBeeDee
writes:I really hate this I have loved someone for years. In a relationship it didnt work out. After it we continued to be on and off but not being together. We would do things together and the next day he wouldnt want anything to do with me sexual wize. Not even a kiss. This confused me loads but it kept happening. Because i felt strongly for him i did it. Which was bad because he didnt want to be with me although i asked him too see me once and he said yes but the next day he wouldnt kiss me and other times he would make up an excuse which i would look back on and think. how rubbish was that excuse. I really want to move on because it hurts seeing him with other people seen astho we are best friends and im with him everyday. Im certain he doesn't want to be with me. He flirts with everyone else, but not me. Ive hurd the best way of getting over someone is to not see them. I cant do that were together eveyday as we are close. By getting over him I dont want to hate him. Ive tried playing hard to get doesn't tend to work really. He does randomly say "No i wont kiss you" .. When i didnt intend to. I dont know why he does this. he just says it. I need help im upset everyday over him and i hate it because I want someone who loves me back and its not going to happen between me and him. Never
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): Just don't let anything more happen between you. Every time you kiss him again it'll mess you up more...#
It'll be hard getting over him - but so long as you contiually treat him as a friend and nothing more then the pain should go away.
I'm sorry this had to happen - and I hope you find someone better for you next time you get into a relationship. x x x
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