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writes:I drove 6 hours one way this weekend to meet up with this girl I met the other week we hit it off pretty good but she wouldn't let me put it in. We were both messing around alot but still did not go all the way. We showered together and slept naked with one another. What did I do wrong bc she was having a great time until I pulled out a condom. Any ideas
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 August 2011):
 Yep, you moved too fast for her. And she may not even know she's being a cock-tease. I was like this until the end of being 19 when I lost my virginity. I had no intent for sex and didn't even understand how I was leading guys on. She may be naive and just thought you were enjoying spending time with her, not trying to get laid. Sorry and good luck!!
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (15 August 2011):
 She was fine with "messing around" but was not ready for penetration. Unless you talked about no penetration before exploring-she was being a bit of a c*ck tease in my opinon.
That is like someone saying "Here is this fine roadster. You can fondle the seats, check out all the compartments, get the engine started and hear it roar...but you may NOT drive it off the driveway.".
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reader, lerato29  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 it might be too early for her to start having sex with you,all you have to do is ask her then shell tell you her reason.take things slow some girls dont like to rush for sex until their are sure they can trust you.
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reader, ayeshaH  +, writes (15 August 2011):
she probably just wasn't ready to go all the way with you yet.
If you only met her the other week, she might want to see you a more before you have sex.
although the fact that you showered together and slept together shows that she is pretty comfortable around you.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 She didn't want sex, I think.
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