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writes:I'm going for a meal with my friend and her friends as her friend is leaving for uni. However myself and one of the guys that is going had a phase of flirting, texting and that sort of stuff but haven't spoke since and I think it's going to be awkward. what should I do? should I let on? what should I say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice guys! I went and i was there before him, when he turned up he looked at me straight away whilst standing with his friends. After our meal we went to the local pub, he bought me drinks and sat right next to me and started flirting, everyone that night knew he liked me as he told one of my friends, but his friend who is my best friend said "not to go there" as he is 2 years older than me however he keeps talking to me on facebook
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reader, HardToExplain +, writes (8 September 2012):
 I've experienced exactly the same thing! Definitely lay off the flirting, because he could've just forgotten about it all whereas you have not. I don't think guys see it as such a big deal as us girls do, he might've even started flirting with a few other girls or even gotten into a relationship! When the time of the meal comes don't go onto him, just kind of leave the evening flow, don't force anything or ask him broad, blunt questions like 'why were you flirting with me if you're not going to ask me out?' or anything similar to that. If he wants to start up a conversation with you, just see how things go! Hope you have a nice and non-awkward meal, don't let him being there stop you from having a good time, okay? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): If it was more than 3 weeks ago I don't think it would be a good idea. If it was less than 2 weeks ago go ahead. He might be in a relationship with someone else, like someone, or not be interested anymore. Just be sure. :)
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