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writes:I am 17 yrs 0lder than my girlfriend, At first we were freinds for about 10yrs. And now have feelings for each other. She wants to move in with me which is OK. but when she told her mum her mum is dead against it and so is most of her family. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): still waiting for the OP to disclose the very relevant ages of both himself and his gf.
any takers?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (31 August 2009):
 Yeah, you need to tell what age group we are addressing here. Your answers will differ vastly if you are say 47 and she is 30 vs. being 34 and 17. How old are you two?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 August 2009):
Why move in together straight away?
It's no wonder they are against it. I wouldn't be happy if my daughter started having feelings for someone and then suddenly wanted to shack up with him. Putting your name on bills with a guy is a very big step because it's really awkward to get out of if it all goes wrong.
Date her. Take her out. Be her boyfriend. Let her family see you are going to be good for her.
THEN you can move in together.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): what is YOUR AGE AND HER AGE?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): You said that her moving in with you is 'OK', this doesn't make you sound overly enthused, so my advice is, don't move intogether but move on with your relationship, as in take your feelings and do something about it. Start going out
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