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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I am 18, and the guy i'm "seeing" is 20. We met through one of my friends at a birthday party and as we both have blackberries, we exchanged pins so that we could talk on blackberry messenger, as it is easier than texting and it's free.We have been talking for about four weeks non-stop. When i say non-stop I mean, the day we added each other, we got home and he started a conversation, and since then the conversation hasn't stopped flowing. Pretty surprising to be honest, but we don't reply to each other straight away, takes about any time from a minute to an hour, but the fact is, we havent stopped. Even at night, one of us falls asleep and the conversation is picked up from where it left off, the next morning.We have met up twice during these four weeks.First time we met up, it was pretty short, we were just in the park for one hour, talking.. And the second time we met up we went to the cinema and then he dropped me home.At the cinema, we were sitting really close together as it was horror film and he had his arm around my shoulder. No other moves were made.It's been over a week since I last saw him, now he hasn't even mentioned seeing me again. I dont know if this is normal because to be honest, i haven't been on many dates at all before. And seeing as we still talk every single day, im slightly confused as to what is going on..He works in a store at a shopping centre, and I was supposed to go the shopping centre today, and i told him last night that i might be coming and I asked him if I should come say hello to him and he said "Yeah" and left it at that, and the topic soon changed...Does he like me? Do you think he wants to see me again? Cause when I asked my friend and she said seeing as its been over a week and he still hasnt asked to see me again or mentioned anything about meeting up, he might not be that into me, but then again, i cant just take one persons advice and go with that cos she doesnt know him to say that. And a guy would know how guys work more than a girl would..What do you guys think?
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reader, petina1 +, writes (11 October 2010):
 It seems like his interest has wained since the night at the cinema. We can talk forever on the blackberry, that's easy like msn etc, it's not in person. As soon as the line is crossed from virtual to reality then the truth will kick in. He's obviously changed and you must know that the level of conversation has changed. Has it changed because he has changed his mind about what he wants from you, or has it changed because he has become a bit shy. Give it a few more days and if he doesnt suggest seeing you again then i would say that he isnt interested. All you can do is wait and see.
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