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We talk but don't communicate! How do we manage to reconnect after his affair?

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Question - (11 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *eartless420_1 writes:

Hi everyone...i need help.My husband and I are going thru a rough time right now. I have forgivin him for the recent affair, he means everything to me. Since he has been back from Iraq, well he isn't the same. I know it changes a person and i tried to prepare my self for that change the best i could. Aparently i had no idea!! We love each other and we have small talk but as for communication, there really isnt any. Some would call it a akward silence, but i dont feel akward. How do we manage to get out of this rut?

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Okay i need some help. Im in the prosses of forgiving and forgeting what my husband has done... We have been together for 3 years and have a 3 year old son. My husband recently got back from a year tour in Iraq. He was home for 3weeks and had an affair. I love him with all my heart....he is my world and the air i breathe. I have forgivin him but i will never forget. Since this has happened our communication hasn't been great. We dont fight or argue, it's just silent? Any suggestion?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008):

Your story makes me feel glad that there are nice people out there who love unconditionally.Congratulations.May the lord keep you and the baby safe.Let not any more storms come in your life.

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A female reader, heartless420_1 United States +, writes (15 December 2008):

heartless420_1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

heartless420_1 agony auntAhh I found out Friday night that im pregnant!!! This could be what saves the marriage i guess. Thank you Gina!

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