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We talk but don't communicate! How do we manage to reconnect after his affair?

Q.   Hi everyone...i need help.My husband and I are going thru a rough time right now. I have forgivin him for the recent affair, he means everything to me. Since he has been back from Iraq, well he isn't the same. I know it changes a person and i tried ...

A.   15 December 2008: Ahh I found out Friday night that im pregnant!!! This could be what saves the marriage i guess. Thank you Gina!... (read in full...)

Does this gesture mean anything?

Q.   I was recently out with a friend. All during dinner he kept placing his hands palm down in the middle of the table. I wanted to touch them but we are hjust friends. Does this mean anything?...

A.   12 December 2008: Well pretty sure it meant that he wanted to hold your hand....but im not %100 positive. Next time you guys are out, you do the same and see if he lays his hands on yours. Take care!!xoxox... (read in full...)

Periods back 5 weeks after having baby - normal?!?!?!

Q.   Heya, well I had my baby 5 weeks ago (through cersearian, I'm breast feeding him - I was told that when breast feeding it takes *at least* a few months for your periods to come back... usuaully takes around 6 months... But this morning I got up and ...

A.   9 December 2008: Your completly normal! However it does suck you started so soon. When i had my son from a cersearian my period came six weeks later. Joy joy. Take care of that baby! xoxox... (read in full...)

Wife... cheating with another soldier!

Q.   I am a soldier currently deployed to Iraq and have been away from home for 5 months now. 2 1/2 months into my deployment my wife admitted to having sex five times with another soldier from my company who was home on medical leave. By the way I ...

A.   8 December 2008: I just want to say the ones who get cheated on arnt the ones who deserve it! My husband got back from Iraq in Oct. we have a 3year old, he was home 3weeks and had an affair on his lunch break! We are seeking marriage counciling but its not the same. ... (read in full...)

We are scheduled to get married, do you think we are ready?

Q.   my fiance just got back from iraq. he had been there a year. when he left we had been fighting and had been seperated. he came back 10 days before he left for iraq when our son was born. he is back but now wants to pretend like he never left me when ...

A.   8 December 2008: Try not to set a date, goto marriage/couples counciling first and get reconnected as a couple. Everything happens for a reason! ... (read in full...)

Should I stick with her and try to work this out?

Q.   I'm 20 years old. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. About a month after we first started going out I was very drunk and cheated on her. I let her know and we talked it over and got over it. We got along really well after ...

A.   6 December 2008: Sorry but yes you should be worried, her not caring if you cheat on her. Well it seems to me she okay with it now because she is doing it to you.... (read in full...)

I'm getting more and more paranoid and it is getting out of control! What can I do to stop feeling like this?

Q.   ive been with my bf for 6 months and never had any problems with him before. last week while we were outside our flat a couple walked past us and i saw him look briefly in their direction and for no reason i instantly got paranoid and thought he was ...

A.   5 December 2008: Wow it will be okay. Sit down with him and let him know how it makes you feel when he looks at other girls. He more than likely wont stop but he may stop doing it in front of you! Comunication... (read in full...)

Should I spend Christmas Day with him?

Q.   Hello, I hope you can help. This sounds like a trivial dilemma but I have no one else to ask and I can't stop thinking about it. It has veen been waking me at night. My boyfriend and I decided to spend Christmas day together about 2 months ago. It ...

A.   5 December 2008: Spend christmas with the people that you know love you, your family!... (read in full...)

I'm completely put off by my boyfriend snorting cocaine.

Q.   HI - I feel let down and have lost all respect for my boyfriend. The other night my boyfriend and I went to a house party, we both had a really brilliant evening. The next morning we went back to the house where the party was and spoke to the girl ...

A.   5 December 2008: If you have lost that lovey feelin' than you would be wise to listen to your gut! Coccain is a funny drug, most of the time he will find his way back to it. Im so sorry, keep your head up!!!!you deserve better babe!... (read in full...)

Because of the lack of communication and history of lies, I'm paranoid every single day.

Q.   I want to give up on my husband. I love him so much and can't bear the thought of actually leaving him, but at this point, I'm not sure that I have better options. I met him 3 years ago at work and we hooked up almost right away. About half a year ...

A.   5 December 2008: Well to be completly honest i dont think us (as women) can get over lies and betrayal! Have you guys seeked councelling? It may help. My husband had an affair as well and im paranoid every day! please feel free to contact me I wish you well! ... (read in full...)

I am a late bloomer and feel so jealous of teenagers who are experiencing what I never did at their age!

Q.   I am 23, and i get very jealous of teenagers and pre teens who are experiencing things that I never got a chance to when I was their age. In middle school/high school, I was very darkskin and ugly, and boys never paid me any mind. I remember...

A.   5 December 2008: Wow, it sounds like we have a lot incommon. Counselling isn't a bad thing it could actually have a very positive impact. I wish you well!! ... (read in full...)

My gf is the one for me but I kissed a girl in a club whilst I was drunk...

Q.   Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We have been through everything together. She even stayed with me through depression. I vowed i would NEVER cheat on her because she IS the one. I love her so much. Last weekend i went out with s...

A.   5 December 2008: I have very mixed emotions on cheating! I waited 10 months for my husband to come home from Iraq, he was home for 3weeks and had an affair on his lunch break and my world came crashing down!We have a son who is 3years old. If you really love her you ... (read in full...)

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