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anonymous
writes:how do u get the spark back in ur relationship? i realise that you cant constantly feel those butterflies, but its been almost 4 years now and i feel very bored with my relationship. i love my bf very much and i know he feels the same. the only thing is everything is so routine, what can we do start having a laugh again like we used to? conversation doesnt exactly flow anymore, although we do really enjoy eachothers company. any advice? anyone experienced this?
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reader, sexi suga +, writes (3 July 2008):
try and remember what made you guys have a laugh and try to re-create it... like with my partner we got the thrill back by going on holiday away from here and doing things that we done when we were younger, as in getting frisky in the swimming pool lol... do things that you used to do in the past that made you guys happy...
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reader, lexilou +, writes (3 July 2008):
 It takes two to make a conversation so maybe he is feeling the same way. Me and my husband still talk non stop after five years but we always make quality time to be alone together at least once a week. Not easy with a 3 year old and two teenagers from a previous marriage. He is my best friend as well as my husband.
Try new things together, make sure you go out and do things together or even take up separate hobbies too to give you something new to talk about. Do spontaneous things rather than just planning all the time.
Also talk to him and find out if he is feeling the same and let him know what youve told us, you love him very much but are bored of the routine x
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