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writes: I'm 19 and I came to knew a guy about 9 months ago and we became buddies since then. He's the typical type of 'romeo' who changes gf like changing clothes. But I have to admit I have some feeling towards him and sometimes there's chemistry between us. I tell him anything about it coz I'm afraid I might freak him out. Last week, we spent a weekend together and I slept over at his place. We slept on the same bed. When he thought I was asleep (but i'm not), he caress my hair and my abs for about a minute, then he stopped. He told me the next morning that he didn't sleep well last night coz he had some weird thoughts the whole night.What does this means? Is he having any feelings for me as well? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): yes he is at lest sexual attracted to you.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (10 April 2007):
 It's really hard to say, especially since (I assume) neither of you is openly gay at this point.
Go slow on this. Go on being his friend. If he is having sexual ideas about you, and you are having such ideas about him as well, sooner or later opportunities will develop for the two of you to express these feelings in a safe setting. Then you can decide what to do from there. But right now there is no rush. Take your time and be sure about your feelings, and let him be sure about his feelings, before either of you makes an overt moves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): Depends on what weird thoughts means... did he mean sexual thoughts or did he mean thoughts of cutting off all your hair or something equally weird?
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