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writes:i been dating this man i am with now for a year and two months, my only big problem he and i fuss all the time about stupid things, we break up and then we say our sorrys and get back together, my big problem is i like some one else now but still in love with my bf, and the other guy i like is coming to meet me on friday , i dont know what to do he lives in a different state to, but i am with someone who loves me soo much , and finally asked me to marry him we set a date, he doesnt want me to have any friends male or females of my own, he wants to be number 1 in my life and for me not to hang out with any one else but him, i dont know what to do about this sincerely confused
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 There are a lot of warning flags for you if your boyfriend "doesn't want you to have male or female friends of your own". If you are feeling uneasy about this, I would pay close attention to the little voice inside that is making you question your relationship with him. You should see anyone that you wish to when you are single, and a good fiancee or husband wouldn't restrict or choose your friends for you either.
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reader, cupidsladyfriend +, writes (24 April 2008):
Sometimes we open a door when we meant to leave it closed just out of curiosity.It's called exploring our options.But now you've got the job of exploring your true feelings in depth for each individual and making a decision.The ring is not on your finger yet, so I suggest you take some quiet time asap and do that.If you love someone, there is no need for a third person....
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): If you keep having arguments over petty things, marriage will not improve it, just imprison you with a jerk.
Break off the wedding, break it off with this guy, tell him with all the bickering you both do, it must mean your not a good match, and go back to dating for a while.
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reader, cupidsladyfriend +, writes (24 April 2008):
Sometimes we open a door when we meant to leave it closed just out of curiosity.It's called exploring our options.But now you've got the job of exploring your true feelings in depth for each individual and making a decision.The ring is not on your finger yet, so I suggest you take some quiet time asap and do that.If you love someone, there is no need for a third person....
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