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anonymous
writes:So i fell n love with someone that is not my husband. I know it does not sound possiable but it was. Im still n love with him but we broke things off. One reason cuz he and I both know that im still n love with my husband and i never would leave him and him and his wife were trying to work things out also.My husband stil does not know about the whole thing. Him and my husband hangout a lot. Now his wife wants all of us to hang out its so weird and hard there for a while we did not speak at all. His wife knows that him and i had huge crushs on each other and that we hung out a lot but thats it. Ive have talk to her about it and how happy i am for them to be working things out.. and I really am to say the least i want the best for him. It actuly opened my eyes on how much i still wanted to be married to my husband. Now us four go every where together and the only two that dont talk that much is me and him which i miss cuz not only do i still love him but he is my best friend. I miss him. im not sure what to do? I know i will never make that mistake again we are just friends now. I just miss are talks. he actuley made me feel good about myself.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 You are a sensible woman and realized your mistake and pulled back. It was an honest mistake .
You could still be good friends . Set your limits and boundaries and don't cross them.
I think you have learned your lessons.
In time , those awkwardness will disappear and you will feel free again .
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reader, rcn +, writes (25 February 2010):
 Two ways to go, (1) end contact with them, (2) The four of you sit down and talk about what's going on here. Or, I guess you could keep it quiet, hang out in silence and allow this secret to keep tearing you up inside.
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