We love each other, but she cant see a future... please help..

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I've been dating a woman for over 8 months and have fallen in love with her. She tells me she loves me too. But last week she told me she doesn't see a future between us. I have a young child and she has grown children. She says she doesn't want to raise another child. She says she doesn't want to lose me, but thinks that it would be best if we just go our separate ways before anyone gets hurt. I would hurt if I lose her. She's going on vacation for 10 days with her family starting this weekend. I told her to spend some time thinking about what's important in her life while she's gone. I also gave her a copy of "The Notebook" to read on her flight. It's hard to change someone's mind. Is there anything I can do at this point, or is walking away my only option?

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