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We keep having affairs - when will he stay with me?

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Question - (12 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2008)
A female United States age , *aige77 writes:

I have been in love with a guy since i have been 16. We never dated because another guy kept us apart because he wanted to date me and was telling the guy i was in love with i moved and i wasn't interested in him. well i didn't move to another state i moved to a different city not far away. i came back to visit and saw this guy and he had married at 20. well he saw me and we started talking and he found out the truth.

well we starting having an affair. then he got divorced not because of me other reasons. didn't see him for a few years and i had meant someone and got married. well again i saw him and we had an affair again. and again lost contact of him and again saw each other but this time he is with someone who is 16 years older then him and i saw him one night and he said that he loved me and always will. but i can't believe he is with this woman. i saw a friend of his and he said that he didn't want me to see this guy because he was comfortable where hes at. what the heck does that mean. i know he loves me and i love him. well i wrote him a letter but im not sure he got it yet. he hasn't called. what do i do. we love each other.

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A female reader, Nikkii Babyee United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2008):

Nikkii Babyee agony auntawh my that sounds like a pretty good love story to me bar tha affairs and people getting hurt! tbh i think yas should get together permanently because yous have been on an off there is obviously something serious between yous i honestly think yas could work! yous just need to sit down an actually talk about what you want be completely open about yer feelings and yas should get each other in the end :)

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